Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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She's always busy doing something, out with her friends, and when I suggest a meetup, she says her schedules Jam packed.

We went out a few times, but i haven't seen her for the last few weeks. Every once and a while she initiates by texting me how I am doing, and sharing some parts of her personal life. I don't initiate the texts anymore.

Do i suggest another time to meet up or wait for her to do it?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How many times have you been out and how many times have you asked her since?
 
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Purefilth said:
How many times have you been out and how many times have you asked her since?
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Been out with her twice, i've asked her out twice, she suggested next week a couple of times, but then said she was busy.

I stopped asking her. But shes been texting me every once in a while to ask me how many weekend was, how I am doing.

I have not suggested going out again.
 
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good. let her suggest the next time.

she's keeping you at a leash length in case her other orbiters don't pan out.

isn't it obvious?
 
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pdx1138 said:
good. let her suggest the next time.

she's keeping you at a leash length in case her other orbiters don't pan out.

isn't it obvious?
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^ what he said, spin some plates
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It's actually obvious that the girl might be entertaining other options because if she is really into you,she won't just keep you hanging for days or weeks,but then It's up to you if another date will do good,oh come on! you can easily sense if the girl really likes you or not though.
 
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troy_003 said:
It's actually obvious that the girl might be entertaining other options because if she is really into you,she won't just keep you hanging for days or weeks,but then It's up to you if another date will do good,oh come on! you can easily sense if the girl really likes you or not though.
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The thing is her facebook is always tagged and checked in with her being with friends. So it doesn't look like she has much time for other options, its true her schedule seems packed, shes always doing stuff with friends.

So it might be legitimiate based on that.
 
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