GreatHornedOwl
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Anybody know what a "jerk" looks like? She said it playfully, but was kind of serious. It didn't seem like a compliment.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
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Girl tells me I "look" like a jerk.
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Domo_Arigatoo
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shyt test, she was most likely looking to see if she could envoke a reaction out of you.
People call me "weird" all the time...
I usually do either of these
*ignore*
"Oh, thanks, i love being weird"
or
"People who aren't weird are too generic"
Usually after i implement one of those they say, "Oh, i was just kidding" or "Yeah, you're right"
Don't dwell on **** like this.
People call me "weird" all the time...
I usually do either of these
*ignore*
"Oh, thanks, i love being weird"
or
"People who aren't weird are too generic"
Usually after i implement one of those they say, "Oh, i was just kidding" or "Yeah, you're right"
Don't dwell on **** like this.
Mike32ct
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At best, it's a sh*t test. At worst, she's just a b*tch being mean.
But either way, just let it roll off of your back.
But either way, just let it roll off of your back.
fibonacci
Don Juan
GreatHornedOwl said:
Were you wearing a meathead shirt or some of those fancy European business shoes (ideally white)? - be honest. :kick:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
she's opened the door for you to tell her what she looks like
keep it playful and steer it to where you want it to go
instead of looking to validate her premise ("does anyone know what a jerk looks like"), create one of your own and play back at her
"its very impressive that you can form such accurate opinions so quickly with little information. some people would consider that jumping to conclusions. but since you are accurate in this case, here's your reward!"
then grab or smack her ass
when/if she protests, exclaim "I'm an ass-grabbing jerk! woo hoo! I'm an ass-grabbing jerk!"
OR
simply own it. this is much easier and requires less planning and execution. when she says you look like a jerk, own it.
"mm hmm. biggest jerk of all time. don't care who knows it."
then shut up and see how she responds
OR
"yeah well you look like a *****, but i've decided not to hold it against you"
OR
"i'll not be party to your insults! good day!"
and leave
the possibilities are endless. use your head for more than a hatrack!
keep it playful and steer it to where you want it to go
instead of looking to validate her premise ("does anyone know what a jerk looks like"), create one of your own and play back at her
"its very impressive that you can form such accurate opinions so quickly with little information. some people would consider that jumping to conclusions. but since you are accurate in this case, here's your reward!"
then grab or smack her ass
when/if she protests, exclaim "I'm an ass-grabbing jerk! woo hoo! I'm an ass-grabbing jerk!"
OR
simply own it. this is much easier and requires less planning and execution. when she says you look like a jerk, own it.
"mm hmm. biggest jerk of all time. don't care who knows it."
then shut up and see how she responds
OR
"yeah well you look like a *****, but i've decided not to hold it against you"
OR
"i'll not be party to your insults! good day!"
and leave
the possibilities are endless. use your head for more than a hatrack!
In2theGame
Master Don Juan
LOLAlle_Gory said:
It's true!In2theGame said:
Open up yourself to the possibilities, there are very smart people out there, there are also very dumb people out there and when you meet them you think to yourself "how is this person still alive? there is no justice in the world". I say treat her like she's a child and you can get far.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
She is just busting on you. Fire your ****y/funny teasing cannon back at her. I wish I had girls who would do that to me. She might even run some game on you.
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PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
I had one girl interested in me and the first thing she said was "you are a d!ck, aren't you", completely unprovoked. They juat wanna see how you react.
Alex DeLarge
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Tell her she looks like a wh0re lol.. Then give her a sly smirk.