"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I've been making out with a chick at uni. Although since this happened whether she is aone with me or in a group she talks about her ex alot (who lives upstairs apparently).

How do I deal with this? Change the subject as fast as possible or what?

I'm not looking for a serious relationship with this girl, just some fun hopefully but I just want to tell her to shut the hell up when she goes on about her ex.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Tweek_1984

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Cant really just next her at the drop of a hat. I thought the best thng to do was to try and get her onto a different subject?
 
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"Don't you have some GFs you can talk to about him ?"
 
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TxCowboy

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just tell her strait up "I really dont want to discuss your ex's" OR "sounds like something you should talk to with the girls"
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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i told a girl "i really dont want to hear about u and your ex"

and she just went "oh okay", and yeah

simple

you complicate things
 
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