"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I've been making out with a chick at uni. Although since this happened whether she is aone with me or in a group she talks about her ex alot (who lives upstairs apparently).

How do I deal with this? Change the subject as fast as possible or what?

I'm not looking for a serious relationship with this girl, just some fun hopefully but I just want to tell her to shut the hell up when she goes on about her ex.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Cant really just next her at the drop of a hat. I thought the best thng to do was to try and get her onto a different subject?
 
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"Don't you have some GFs you can talk to about him ?"
 
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just tell her strait up "I really dont want to discuss your ex's" OR "sounds like something you should talk to with the girls"
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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i told a girl "i really dont want to hear about u and your ex"

and she just went "oh okay", and yeah

simple

you complicate things
 
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