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I've been making out with a chick at uni. Although since this happened whether she is aone with me or in a group she talks about her ex alot (who lives upstairs apparently).

How do I deal with this? Change the subject as fast as possible or what?

I'm not looking for a serious relationship with this girl, just some fun hopefully but I just want to tell her to shut the hell up when she goes on about her ex.
 

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Cant really just next her at the drop of a hat. I thought the best thng to do was to try and get her onto a different subject?
 
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"Don't you have some GFs you can talk to about him ?"
 
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just tell her strait up "I really dont want to discuss your ex's" OR "sounds like something you should talk to with the girls"
 

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i told a girl "i really dont want to hear about u and your ex"

and she just went "oh okay", and yeah

simple

you complicate things
 
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