"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Girl subtly told me she has a boyfriend.

MountainSlide

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So I am chatting with this girl over text and hanging out with her a couple times, and after this she subtly texts something about hanging out with her boyfriend. I am kind of confused because this girl shows very high interest and it seems like we hit it off pretty well aka "connected". She is still texting me and seems as though she's hanging off my every word. Any ideas on what I should do?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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RangerMIke

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Women who do this often times are trying to fill an emotional need not being met by their BF. She is using you for male attention, and she'll just go home and fvck her BF. Mauser96 has shown you how to handle this.... use those exact words.
 

El Payaso

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She's just using you for emotional validation. Delete her number and move onto someone else.
 

WanderingMan

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I agree with the above. Though, there are rare circumstances when she says "I have a boyfriend" as a way of ASD when she's planning on sleeping with you and cheating on him. If she tells you before hand that she has a boyfriend then you become a co-conspirator, as well as it being a way to rationalize to herself that "it just happened" The rationalization is that she initially told you she had a boyfriend and therefore wasn't planning on cheating on him - even though she was.

But who knows. Either way, I wouldn't pursue this one any further.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bible_Belt

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When a woman you just started talking to that moment tells you she has a bf, it is a polite way of telling you to go away.

But in this case, where she has obviously enjoyed your attention for some time, it is a sh!t test. She is saying to you, "will you still keep giving me attention, even when you know I'm not going to give you any pvssy?"

That doesn't mean you should run away immediately. When she first brought up the bf, you should have said "Boyfriend?....Well, you had better not tell him about me." And then kiss her, touch her ass, or do something that is obviously inappropriate for a woman with a bf. If she likes it, then she is not that serious about the bf.
 

marmel75

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Could be a sh!t test, could be true. Doesn't matter. Act as if you never heard it and don't let it phase you. If you want to get it, then try and get it.
 
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