Girl straight out tells me that her bf is going away, what do you thinks up?

[Kal0051]

This is a girl I started talking to again recently. Anyway I asked her if she wanted to do something this week. She told me that next week would be better, she's working a lot this week and her bf is going away for a while. I'm probably reading WAY too much into this, but I've always thought that she liked me. Anyway, should I escalate with this girl at all or just have a fun time with a cool girl? Thanks for any help?

 

[Ferocious]

Should I escalate with this girl at all or just have a fun time with a cool girl? Thanks for any help?

You can't do both?

I mean, you don't lose anything by trying do you????

 

[Kal0051]

You can't do both?

I mean, you don't lose anything by trying do you????

Well, I more meant should I escalate or not? Of course I'll have a fun time regardless, if I didn't think I'd have fun I wouldn't want to hang out with her.

 

[Cherokee]

It never harms to esculate, just don't be too full on, incase she reads too much into u being desperate or some sh!t. Go with your gut, to be honest it depends on your history with this girl, if she's used to you being there as a friend she might just mean "Hey come over and be my emotional tampon whilst my bf's away". Your call though dude. Play it wise.

 

[Kal0051]

I've not really been her friend, more like an acquaintance.

 

[tone_loc]

Go for it.

 

[Dante420]

You know what she wants.... :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes:

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