"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girl straight out tells me that her bf is going away, what do you thinks up?

Kal0051

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This is a girl I started talking to again recently. Anyway I asked her if she wanted to do something this week. She told me that next week would be better, she's working a lot this week and her bf is going away for a while. I'm probably reading WAY too much into this, but I've always thought that she liked me. Anyway, should I escalate with this girl at all or just have a fun time with a cool girl? Thanks for any help?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ferocious

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Kal0051 said:
Should I escalate with this girl at all or just have a fun time with a cool girl? Thanks for any help?
You can't do both?

I mean, you don't lose anything by trying do you????
 

Kal0051

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Ferocious said:
You can't do both?

I mean, you don't lose anything by trying do you????
Well, I more meant should I escalate or not? Of course I'll have a fun time regardless, if I didn't think I'd have fun I wouldn't want to hang out with her.
 

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It never harms to esculate, just don't be too full on, incase she reads too much into u being desperate or some sh!t. Go with your gut, to be honest it depends on your history with this girl, if she's used to you being there as a friend she might just mean "Hey come over and be my emotional tampon whilst my bf's away". Your call though dude. Play it wise.
 

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I've not really been her friend, more like an acquaintance.
 

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