"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girl straight out tells me that her bf is going away, what do you thinks up?

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This is a girl I started talking to again recently. Anyway I asked her if she wanted to do something this week. She told me that next week would be better, she's working a lot this week and her bf is going away for a while. I'm probably reading WAY too much into this, but I've always thought that she liked me. Anyway, should I escalate with this girl at all or just have a fun time with a cool girl? Thanks for any help?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Kal0051 said:
Should I escalate with this girl at all or just have a fun time with a cool girl? Thanks for any help?
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You can't do both?

I mean, you don't lose anything by trying do you????
 
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Ferocious said:
You can't do both?

I mean, you don't lose anything by trying do you????
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Well, I more meant should I escalate or not? Of course I'll have a fun time regardless, if I didn't think I'd have fun I wouldn't want to hang out with her.
 
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It never harms to esculate, just don't be too full on, incase she reads too much into u being desperate or some sh!t. Go with your gut, to be honest it depends on your history with this girl, if she's used to you being there as a friend she might just mean "Hey come over and be my emotional tampon whilst my bf's away". Your call though dude. Play it wise.
 
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I've not really been her friend, more like an acquaintance.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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