"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girl straight out tells me that her bf is going away, what do you thinks up?

Kal0051

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This is a girl I started talking to again recently. Anyway I asked her if she wanted to do something this week. She told me that next week would be better, she's working a lot this week and her bf is going away for a while. I'm probably reading WAY too much into this, but I've always thought that she liked me. Anyway, should I escalate with this girl at all or just have a fun time with a cool girl? Thanks for any help?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Kal0051 said:
Should I escalate with this girl at all or just have a fun time with a cool girl? Thanks for any help?
You can't do both?

I mean, you don't lose anything by trying do you????
 

Kal0051

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Ferocious said:
You can't do both?

I mean, you don't lose anything by trying do you????
Well, I more meant should I escalate or not? Of course I'll have a fun time regardless, if I didn't think I'd have fun I wouldn't want to hang out with her.
 

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It never harms to esculate, just don't be too full on, incase she reads too much into u being desperate or some sh!t. Go with your gut, to be honest it depends on your history with this girl, if she's used to you being there as a friend she might just mean "Hey come over and be my emotional tampon whilst my bf's away". Your call though dude. Play it wise.
 

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I've not really been her friend, more like an acquaintance.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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