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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girl smiles first in drive by

Naapimp

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So I walk by a lot of girls around where I live and on campus. I try to give EC to those that interest me, usually HB7-8s, just because 9-10s are quite rare and I don’t care about below 7. I get EC back from about 70% of them, of these about 1/15 will give me a genuine smile, without me doing anything but the EC, maybe I do some very subtle facial expression change when I get the EC that could help this, I’m still trying to figure that one out. I’m almost always trying get to some place on a time frame and don’t really think about starting in a convo with these girls. However, I intend to change that, so I’m guessing these girls that smile first are kinda hoping I’ll stop to talk to them, is this correct? Would you use your standard openers on these girls? I was thinking of maybe trying something different like:

Hey, *stop walking, get her to stop, use hand if necessary* So you smiled you at me, would you like to get to know each other.

Or:

So is there any particular reason you just smiled at me?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Rockadeimis

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- So you smiled you at me, would you like to get to know each other.

Sounds way too needy...

Or:

- So is there any particular reason you just smiled at me?

Even worse...she will say somethig like 'just being friendly' and you'll creep her out bigtime.

Just relax, big guy. Seems like you are doing too much analysis. Sometimes analysis =/= success. Read the info on this site and put what you can into practice. It's more about you and your attitude/confidence then it is about the girl(s) in question.
 

spider_007

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NOOOOOOOOO,

that sounds sooooo gay.........

just stop turn around, smile back and say " hi im blah bha blah, what's your name" and then coment on something she is waring or doing or whatever............................
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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