"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Naapimp

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So I walk by a lot of girls around where I live and on campus. I try to give EC to those that interest me, usually HB7-8s, just because 9-10s are quite rare and I don’t care about below 7. I get EC back from about 70% of them, of these about 1/15 will give me a genuine smile, without me doing anything but the EC, maybe I do some very subtle facial expression change when I get the EC that could help this, I’m still trying to figure that one out. I’m almost always trying get to some place on a time frame and don’t really think about starting in a convo with these girls. However, I intend to change that, so I’m guessing these girls that smile first are kinda hoping I’ll stop to talk to them, is this correct? Would you use your standard openers on these girls? I was thinking of maybe trying something different like:

Hey, *stop walking, get her to stop, use hand if necessary* So you smiled you at me, would you like to get to know each other.

Or:

So is there any particular reason you just smiled at me?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Rockadeimis

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- So you smiled you at me, would you like to get to know each other.

Sounds way too needy...

Or:

- So is there any particular reason you just smiled at me?

Even worse...she will say somethig like 'just being friendly' and you'll creep her out bigtime.

Just relax, big guy. Seems like you are doing too much analysis. Sometimes analysis =/= success. Read the info on this site and put what you can into practice. It's more about you and your attitude/confidence then it is about the girl(s) in question.
 

spider_007

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NOOOOOOOOO,

that sounds sooooo gay.........

just stop turn around, smile back and say " hi im blah bha blah, what's your name" and then coment on something she is waring or doing or whatever............................
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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