"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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girl said im cute, good response?

baurman

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so this girl left me a msg on mysapce going "psssst ... you' re cute" and I was just wondering how should I respond to this? should I do it in a C&F manner? or would that be too harsh on her? I want to bang this chick so something that I can say to make her want me even more would be appreciated.

I was thinking of saying like "I know I am" or something, but I think thats just being too conceited and would piss her off.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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connor32

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say "you are too. imagine how cute we'd be together" or "your cute, im cute...let's be cute together."
 

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lol, wtf, no offense, but I would not listen to the two guys who just posted. People say this to me all the time. Whenever they do, I always look them in the eyes and come back with "I know" and then look away and continue whatever it was I was doing before. By doing that I demonstrate higher value (regular compliments aren't going to get my attention) and essentially tell her that if she wants my attention, she's going to have to work harder for it.

That's just me though, some other more experienced DJs might have a better idea of how to handle this. I'm just telling you what works for me.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"I see you've got good taste"

compliments the both of you
 

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"pssst.....so is my d!ck"
 

ChapStick

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When someone tells me I'm cute or hot or whatever, I just smile and move on and not focus on myself... It shows that I know I am attractive and that I appreciate the compliment, but at the same time I don't look like a stuck up ******* lol
 

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myspace is way different than real life... it really depends on what she looks like... if she's average or cute - the best thing to do on myspace is to compliment her back and attempt to start a conversation... if she's hot - just overlook her saying it and start talking to her. myspace babes get complimented all day on there... look at how many friends she has, how many comments, comments on pics, etc etc...

every girl on there is different... figure out what she is...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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BlakeW5 said:
"I see you've got good taste"

compliments the both of you
Nice one Blake :). I'll use that one the next time a chick tells me that.
 

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TheEdgeOf said:
lol, wtf, no offense, but I would not listen to the two guys who just posted. People say this to me all the time. Whenever they do, I always look them in the eyes and come back with "I know" and then look away and continue whatever it was I was doing before. By doing that I demonstrate higher value (regular compliments aren't going to get my attention) and essentially tell her that if she wants my attention, she's going to have to work harder for it.

That's just me though, some other more experienced DJs might have a better idea of how to handle this. I'm just telling you what works for me.
I used to do that until i found out that saying "thank you" as if you've been there before works alot better.
 
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