"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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girl said im cute, good response?

baurman

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so this girl left me a msg on mysapce going "psssst ... you' re cute" and I was just wondering how should I respond to this? should I do it in a C&F manner? or would that be too harsh on her? I want to bang this chick so something that I can say to make her want me even more would be appreciated.

I was thinking of saying like "I know I am" or something, but I think thats just being too conceited and would piss her off.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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connor32

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say "you are too. imagine how cute we'd be together" or "your cute, im cute...let's be cute together."
 

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lol, wtf, no offense, but I would not listen to the two guys who just posted. People say this to me all the time. Whenever they do, I always look them in the eyes and come back with "I know" and then look away and continue whatever it was I was doing before. By doing that I demonstrate higher value (regular compliments aren't going to get my attention) and essentially tell her that if she wants my attention, she's going to have to work harder for it.

That's just me though, some other more experienced DJs might have a better idea of how to handle this. I'm just telling you what works for me.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"I see you've got good taste"

compliments the both of you
 

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"pssst.....so is my d!ck"
 

ChapStick

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When someone tells me I'm cute or hot or whatever, I just smile and move on and not focus on myself... It shows that I know I am attractive and that I appreciate the compliment, but at the same time I don't look like a stuck up ******* lol
 

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myspace is way different than real life... it really depends on what she looks like... if she's average or cute - the best thing to do on myspace is to compliment her back and attempt to start a conversation... if she's hot - just overlook her saying it and start talking to her. myspace babes get complimented all day on there... look at how many friends she has, how many comments, comments on pics, etc etc...

every girl on there is different... figure out what she is...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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BlakeW5 said:
"I see you've got good taste"

compliments the both of you
Nice one Blake :). I'll use that one the next time a chick tells me that.
 

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TheEdgeOf said:
lol, wtf, no offense, but I would not listen to the two guys who just posted. People say this to me all the time. Whenever they do, I always look them in the eyes and come back with "I know" and then look away and continue whatever it was I was doing before. By doing that I demonstrate higher value (regular compliments aren't going to get my attention) and essentially tell her that if she wants my attention, she's going to have to work harder for it.

That's just me though, some other more experienced DJs might have a better idea of how to handle this. I'm just telling you what works for me.
I used to do that until i found out that saying "thank you" as if you've been there before works alot better.
 
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