redskinsfan92
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I told her 5'7" and that I'm tall enough to ride all the rollercoasters. What do y'all say to this question?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Girl on Tinder asked me my height
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Atom Smasher
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Yellow flag You should ask her weight.
redskinsfan92
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No problem. Question sent.
You’ll encounter this 99.999% of the time on online dating. They usually go down the list “what do you do, ever been married and any kids (if neither then why not), what do you do for fun, how tall are you”. And here we are sitting around in this site talking about learning how to keep womens interest level up when they really don’t have much interesting to say.lol
redskinsfan92
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There
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
redskinsfan92
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She's playing around and has avoided requests to meet a couple times now. I have no interest other than fun at this point.
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Hahaha
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RangerMIke
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The best way to answer questions like this is to have fun with it.
I like "Tall enough to ride roller-coasters." that's good. Another would be "The top of my head is 205'3" above sea level where I'm standing now." Another would be to use some obscure archaic measurement... in you case, next time say "I'm 16.28 palmus." Another good way to deal with it is to turn in towards something sexual... Say "Is that standing up or laying down... what is more important to you." Then see what she does with that.
RangerMIke
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This is getting interesting... I like this chick. Challenge her... tell her to prove it.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Me:I'd be on top (devil emoji)
Her:Also your height is irrelevant to me it’s honestly just a bad attitude that you have in your profile that makes me hesitant
Her:So while I see why you asked, asking a woman about her weight is rude and you know it
Me:
You swiped right on the profile.
I'm a rude boy!
Her:
I guess you
Are
Her:Also your height is irrelevant to me it’s honestly just a bad attitude that you have in your profile that makes me hesitant
Her:So while I see why you asked, asking a woman about her weight is rude and you know it
Me:
You swiped right on the profile.
I'm a rude boy!
Her:
I guess you
Are
EyeBRollin
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If 5’9 or shorter, add 3 inches to your actual height. Everyone else say 6’ or their actual height if between 6’ and 6’3. If taller than 6’3 just say 6’3.
I don’t think the banter is worth your time if she’s already intent on screening you out.
backseatjuan
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That just means she's not into you sexually, your SMV is your looks + what you do, looks can be ignored if you are an important bird, so neither gets her hot and wet for you and she had no plans on dating your ass. At this point you are online entertainment.
Now if you were ripped, she wouldn't be asking your height. Same thing, if you had good pics showing your SMV, something really social and hot, she wouldn't be asking those kinds of questions.
Why didn't you sign to a gym yet?
If you'd look anything close to Lazar Angelov, even 50% close ripped, she wouldn't be in position to fck around, and he is around your height.
Now if you were ripped, she wouldn't be asking your height. Same thing, if you had good pics showing your SMV, something really social and hot, she wouldn't be asking those kinds of questions.
Why didn't you sign to a gym yet?
If you'd look anything close to Lazar Angelov, even 50% close ripped, she wouldn't be in position to fck around, and he is around your height.
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Lazar Angelov, the known steroid abuser?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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I have a gym.
I am well aware she has no intention of dating me. I have another Timder girl I'm lining a date up with, so no worries.
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SMV increases over time and does not happen overnight. I still try to date while working on it.
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Update: She has unmatched me. Saw that coming from a mile away. She had low interest from the start.
backseatjuan
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Gotta work on your body, get ripped. You keep dancing and ignoring this topic.
Also, fcking around with her and other bull is same as telling her baby I got no other sht going on. When that conversation steers that way when she begins to qualify you, all you do is ignore her. She's not worth the effort.
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Originally the conversation started like this then it devolved into that after I asked her out for coffee.
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.