redskinsfan92
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I told her 5'7" and that I'm tall enough to ride all the rollercoasters. What do y'all say to this question?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Girl on Tinder asked me my height
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Atom Smasher
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Yellow flag You should ask her weight.
redskinsfan92
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No problem. Question sent.
You’ll encounter this 99.999% of the time on online dating. They usually go down the list “what do you do, ever been married and any kids (if neither then why not), what do you do for fun, how tall are you”. And here we are sitting around in this site talking about learning how to keep womens interest level up when they really don’t have much interesting to say.lol
redskinsfan92
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There
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
redskinsfan92
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She's playing around and has avoided requests to meet a couple times now. I have no interest other than fun at this point.
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Hahaha
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RangerMIke
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The best way to answer questions like this is to have fun with it.
I like "Tall enough to ride roller-coasters." that's good. Another would be "The top of my head is 205'3" above sea level where I'm standing now." Another would be to use some obscure archaic measurement... in you case, next time say "I'm 16.28 palmus." Another good way to deal with it is to turn in towards something sexual... Say "Is that standing up or laying down... what is more important to you." Then see what she does with that.
RangerMIke
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This is getting interesting... I like this chick. Challenge her... tell her to prove it.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Me:I'd be on top (devil emoji)
Her:Also your height is irrelevant to me it’s honestly just a bad attitude that you have in your profile that makes me hesitant
Her:So while I see why you asked, asking a woman about her weight is rude and you know it
Me:
You swiped right on the profile.
I'm a rude boy!
Her:
I guess you
Are
Her:Also your height is irrelevant to me it’s honestly just a bad attitude that you have in your profile that makes me hesitant
Her:So while I see why you asked, asking a woman about her weight is rude and you know it
Me:
You swiped right on the profile.
I'm a rude boy!
Her:
I guess you
Are
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If 5’9 or shorter, add 3 inches to your actual height. Everyone else say 6’ or their actual height if between 6’ and 6’3. If taller than 6’3 just say 6’3.
I don’t think the banter is worth your time if she’s already intent on screening you out.
backseatjuan
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That just means she's not into you sexually, your SMV is your looks + what you do, looks can be ignored if you are an important bird, so neither gets her hot and wet for you and she had no plans on dating your ass. At this point you are online entertainment.
Now if you were ripped, she wouldn't be asking your height. Same thing, if you had good pics showing your SMV, something really social and hot, she wouldn't be asking those kinds of questions.
Why didn't you sign to a gym yet?
If you'd look anything close to Lazar Angelov, even 50% close ripped, she wouldn't be in position to fck around, and he is around your height.
Now if you were ripped, she wouldn't be asking your height. Same thing, if you had good pics showing your SMV, something really social and hot, she wouldn't be asking those kinds of questions.
Why didn't you sign to a gym yet?
If you'd look anything close to Lazar Angelov, even 50% close ripped, she wouldn't be in position to fck around, and he is around your height.
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Lazar Angelov, the known steroid abuser?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
redskinsfan92
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I have a gym.
I am well aware she has no intention of dating me. I have another Timder girl I'm lining a date up with, so no worries.
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SMV increases over time and does not happen overnight. I still try to date while working on it.
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Update: She has unmatched me. Saw that coming from a mile away. She had low interest from the start.
backseatjuan
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Gotta work on your body, get ripped. You keep dancing and ignoring this topic.
Also, fcking around with her and other bull is same as telling her baby I got no other sht going on. When that conversation steers that way when she begins to qualify you, all you do is ignore her. She's not worth the effort.
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Originally the conversation started like this then it devolved into that after I asked her out for coffee.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.