“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Hey i met this cute girl and hung out with her several times progressing to make out sessions. However, this girl is obviously a virgin. She told me she has never french kissed a guy and never had a boyfriend. The girl is beautiful so her never having a boyfriend was shocking to me, and i told her she was sexy and she was shocked that i thought so. Also, I grabbed her butt and she freaked out and told me not to do it again. :( Im frustrated because most of the other girls ive been with have been really into me touching them. She told me we should be exclusive, but i dont know if i can. i mean shes 20 and afraid of me sqeezing her butt! Any tips on how i could make her more comfortable with progression?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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hmm, this will be a tough one. I mean if you push too hard you'll just push her away. Maybe try and get her comfortable with you touching her, you probably just surprised her suddenly grabbing her ass. This might take more time than your used to. But maybe I'm wrong, maybe someone else here has more experience with girls like this.
 
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Yeah man i mean she is phenomenal, smart, funny, etc. however her problem is she wont let me close....i thought i did everything well, kino, rub her bare back, etc. then i went for grabbing her butt and she freaked! LOL man im going to have to take it REALLY slow if i want to persue her!
 
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I dunno what to say about that... that's the kind of stuff that I encountered in junior high... I was making out with this girl and she told me that she wanted me to put my hands on her butt... but at the same time, tits were completely off limits. Girls with limited experience will interpret advances in these areas as you trying to force sex on them... truth is she's not giving that up until she's completely ready, and you might not get to touch the fun bits until she's ready to go all the way.
 
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good advice man, never thought of it that way....thanks...so my game plan will be to continue making out and progressing by taking her clothes off, not by touching the "forbidden areas". GENIUS!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If she won't even let you get past making out and is talking about getting exclusive, she probably won't give up much more out of a relationship. I'd say this one's more trouble than you need.
 
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