"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hey i met this cute girl and hung out with her several times progressing to make out sessions. However, this girl is obviously a virgin. She told me she has never french kissed a guy and never had a boyfriend. The girl is beautiful so her never having a boyfriend was shocking to me, and i told her she was sexy and she was shocked that i thought so. Also, I grabbed her butt and she freaked out and told me not to do it again. :( Im frustrated because most of the other girls ive been with have been really into me touching them. She told me we should be exclusive, but i dont know if i can. i mean shes 20 and afraid of me sqeezing her butt! Any tips on how i could make her more comfortable with progression?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hmm, this will be a tough one. I mean if you push too hard you'll just push her away. Maybe try and get her comfortable with you touching her, you probably just surprised her suddenly grabbing her ass. This might take more time than your used to. But maybe I'm wrong, maybe someone else here has more experience with girls like this.
 
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Yeah man i mean she is phenomenal, smart, funny, etc. however her problem is she wont let me close....i thought i did everything well, kino, rub her bare back, etc. then i went for grabbing her butt and she freaked! LOL man im going to have to take it REALLY slow if i want to persue her!
 
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I dunno what to say about that... that's the kind of stuff that I encountered in junior high... I was making out with this girl and she told me that she wanted me to put my hands on her butt... but at the same time, tits were completely off limits. Girls with limited experience will interpret advances in these areas as you trying to force sex on them... truth is she's not giving that up until she's completely ready, and you might not get to touch the fun bits until she's ready to go all the way.
 
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good advice man, never thought of it that way....thanks...so my game plan will be to continue making out and progressing by taking her clothes off, not by touching the "forbidden areas". GENIUS!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If she won't even let you get past making out and is talking about getting exclusive, she probably won't give up much more out of a relationship. I'd say this one's more trouble than you need.
 
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