"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hey i met this cute girl and hung out with her several times progressing to make out sessions. However, this girl is obviously a virgin. She told me she has never french kissed a guy and never had a boyfriend. The girl is beautiful so her never having a boyfriend was shocking to me, and i told her she was sexy and she was shocked that i thought so. Also, I grabbed her butt and she freaked out and told me not to do it again. :( Im frustrated because most of the other girls ive been with have been really into me touching them. She told me we should be exclusive, but i dont know if i can. i mean shes 20 and afraid of me sqeezing her butt! Any tips on how i could make her more comfortable with progression?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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hmm, this will be a tough one. I mean if you push too hard you'll just push her away. Maybe try and get her comfortable with you touching her, you probably just surprised her suddenly grabbing her ass. This might take more time than your used to. But maybe I'm wrong, maybe someone else here has more experience with girls like this.
 
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Yeah man i mean she is phenomenal, smart, funny, etc. however her problem is she wont let me close....i thought i did everything well, kino, rub her bare back, etc. then i went for grabbing her butt and she freaked! LOL man im going to have to take it REALLY slow if i want to persue her!
 
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I dunno what to say about that... that's the kind of stuff that I encountered in junior high... I was making out with this girl and she told me that she wanted me to put my hands on her butt... but at the same time, tits were completely off limits. Girls with limited experience will interpret advances in these areas as you trying to force sex on them... truth is she's not giving that up until she's completely ready, and you might not get to touch the fun bits until she's ready to go all the way.
 
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good advice man, never thought of it that way....thanks...so my game plan will be to continue making out and progressing by taking her clothes off, not by touching the "forbidden areas". GENIUS!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If she won't even let you get past making out and is talking about getting exclusive, she probably won't give up much more out of a relationship. I'd say this one's more trouble than you need.
 
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