Girl is throwing DHVs at me as a jealousy tactic

[The_Reaper]

I was sleeping with a girl for a few weeks while I met her in her city, we exchanged emails, and though we're hundreds of miles apart, we occasionally send light-hearted emails back and forth.

In the last email, she posted a chunk of text from a beta who she's dating, where he said "you mean so much to me" etc. She "asked" what he could mean by that.

Lol.

Man, do these chicks not realise how transparent their tactics are? Her motivations seem obvious.

The worst thing is, I can't just call her on it. It can't be put "out there".

 

[The_Reaper]

Any comments on this one, folks?

 

[DonJuanit0]

Yeah, there are people, women/men that have brain issues!

Stay away!

 

[scrouds]

Just laugh it off. I wouldn't respond to it at all, like it never existed.

 

[EFFORT]

I was sleeping with a girl for a few weeks while I met her in her city, we exchanged emails, and though we're hundreds of miles apart, we occasionally send light-hearted emails back and forth.

Pretty pointless unless you plan on seeing her again

In the last email, she posted a chunk of text from a beta who she's dating

Ok so it was a fling you had with her

, where he said "you mean so much to me" etc. She "asked" what he could mean by that.

Means your my only option



Lol.

Man, do these chicks not realise how transparent their tactics are? Her motivations seem obvious.

Why would she be trying to make you jealous? You just had a fling with her and its over. Thats why i'm confused why your still talking, your hundreds of miles away.

The worst thing is, I can't just call her on it. It can't be put "out there".

You could just stop talking to her and talk to girls near you instead.

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[mikeyb]

Is this girl a blonde by any chance? lol

 

[game.r]

Just reply

" its not something i would say, you should ask him"

then change the topic. I don't have a problem exchanging the occasional email, just don't become her emotional tampon.

 

[sodbuster]

Oh, thats nice, it means he's in LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE with you;you should grab him quick and marry him.

 

[The_Reaper]

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I enjoy her conversation, she's cool.

I keep in touch with quite a few girls I've been with before. She's a contact for me if I ever end up going to the states near where she lives. Nothing wrong with that.

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

Oh, thats nice, it means he's in LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE with you;you should grab him quick and marry him.

Hah, that was pretty funny

 

[Tazman]

You DHV by "encouraging" her to move on it. Don't spend a lot of time talking about it, just reply with one sentence.

Anything that makes it seem like you don't care.

 

[sageproduct]

From what I've learned, you can do three things:
1. What Tazman said
2. Add humor somehow?
3. Turn the tables by mentioning your experience with another woman

Also, I think there's no harm with staying in touch.