Girl is friends with exs? (Very Long but needed :( )

[JoeMarron]

Someone shoot me now - this cant be happining!

My friend who i fancy like mad - says she wants to come round and **** me - and im having to say no cos of this girl!

This isnt a joke - omg im a total fool for not doing it right?

I repeat this is not a drill!!!!

A goddamn shame. A new chick is throwing pvssy at you but you're still stuck on the old chick who you arent even in a relationship with yet. This chick that you're stuck on wouldn't think twice about jumping in bed with one of her ex's if they offered it. If you have any shred of masculinity left in you you'll take her up on her offer and properly ravage her. Read the bible http://www.mts.net/~bpony/djbible/ and when you finally grow some balls travel back in time to your past self and slap him.

 

[Jules_Winfield]

Someone shoot me now - this cant be happining!

My friend who i fancy like mad - says she wants to come round and **** me - and im having to say no cos of this girl!

This isnt a joke - omg im a total fool for not doing it right?

I repeat this is not a drill!!!!

Sleep with her and lie about it!

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Sleep with her and don't tell this dumb byatch a thing about it, because its none of her business!

Fixed!










PIMP

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

Originally Posted by Danger
don't take risky investments to begin with.

Easier said than done, we're men, we all do it. It's the nature of the Beast. You just need to be prepared to deal with it if that investment goes bad.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

And the being on the phone thing was her idea not mine.

Well, it was a bad idea, chicks are full of em. Three words you need to learn OP: Fvck that sh1t

Try it on for size. That little phrase comes in handy every once in while.

 

[bobbates]

Right I did go for it last night but then it was late and thunder storming and she was worried about it - so i said its ok for tonight (im not gonna make her drive in it).

This girl also knows all about me and exs girl as well lol...

I am going to see this girl with the exs today as well - and might as well go see what i want out of this or not - oh and she said she will stop talking to them completlly now. - cos i said i cant be with someone who does that - end of.

But then I will be coming home later and - I know this girl would pretty much come round to **** me now - cos i talk to her a lot and i dont think that was just one night of being horny tbh.

so...

Im seriouslly thinking of doing it one night.

I just need to know 2 things.

1) Does it make me a bad person if i do that.

2) Is this cheating in any kind? (dont see how if we aint together yet - but we have both said to eachother we will not be sleeping with anyone else - and I have not been - and neither has she (as far as i know lol)

Final thoughts before i decide to cross that line or not?

(also i cant beleve this is even happining - i cant get girls most of the time - so wtf happend?! lol)

 

[papawapa]

The dumbest thing you can do is tell her "these are my boundaries, respect them or else." Once you do that ALL your cards are on the table and by knowing your hand you are completely screwed. If you want to get with this girl, and like others have said I don't know why when you can clearly do better, you have to take complete control. Write down your boundaries and what the consequence will be if she breaks them. Believe me she is going to break them, she is a boundary buster for sure. You might already have screwed yourself with this one by showing her you are needy and clingy. Your goal is to get her to chase you, right now you are doing the chasing.

From reading your conversation she is likely a cluster B. If you really want to be with her you are going to need balls of steel and extra thick skin. You are going to have to be able to control your emotions and keep them to yourself. Any hint that you are a BETA and she will eat you for lunch. And you also need to be prepared that if can turn it around and show her that you are Alpha, she will most likely see she cannot feed off of you and leave you alone to find easier prey.

 

[FortunateSon]

Girl is friends with exes? Cool story bro! She ain't bouncing off my f*ck piece until she gets rid of him/them.

My friend got into a relationship with a girl who was in still in touch with her ex and guess what? She wound up blowing his piece and her ex's too.

 

[papawapa]

Dude, just because she told you she has stopped talking to her ex's doesn't mean it is true. I can guarantee she has not. She is telling you what you want to hear and testing to see if you are still on the hook. You are getting played. You are naive and have no clue what cluster B's are capable of.

 

[bobbates]

Just an update...

After this all happend I stayed with her and sort of kept my eye on it all...

I stopped with all the pressure and they all slowly stopped talking to each other on their own.