A goddamn shame. A new chick is throwing pvssy at you but you're still stuck on the old chick who you arent even in a relationship with yet. This chick that you're stuck on wouldn't think twice about jumping in bed with one of her ex's if they offered it. If you have any shred of masculinity left in you you'll take her up on her offer and properly ravage her. Read the bible http://www.mts.net/~bpony/djbible/ and when you finally grow some balls travel back in time to your past self and slap him.bobbates said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Girl is friends with exs? (Very Long but needed :( )
- Thread starter bobbates
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Jules_Winfield
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Sleep with her and lie about it!bobbates said:
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Jules_Winfield said:
Fixed!
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Peaks&Valleys
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Easier said than done, we're men, we all do it. It's the nature of the Beast. You just need to be prepared to deal with it if that investment goes bad.
Peaks&Valleys
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Well, it was a bad idea, chicks are full of em. Three words you need to learn OP: Fvck that sh1tbobbates said:
Try it on for size. That little phrase comes in handy every once in while.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Right I did go for it last night but then it was late and thunder storming and she was worried about it - so i said its ok for tonight (im not gonna make her drive in it).
This girl also knows all about me and exs girl as well lol...
I am going to see this girl with the exs today as well - and might as well go see what i want out of this or not - oh and she said she will stop talking to them completlly now. - cos i said i cant be with someone who does that - end of.
But then I will be coming home later and - I know this girl would pretty much come round to **** me now - cos i talk to her a lot and i dont think that was just one night of being horny tbh.
so...
Im seriouslly thinking of doing it one night.
I just need to know 2 things.
1) Does it make me a bad person if i do that.
2) Is this cheating in any kind? (dont see how if we aint together yet - but we have both said to eachother we will not be sleeping with anyone else - and I have not been - and neither has she (as far as i know lol)
Final thoughts before i decide to cross that line or not?
(also i cant beleve this is even happining - i cant get girls most of the time - so wtf happend?! lol)
This girl also knows all about me and exs girl as well lol...
I am going to see this girl with the exs today as well - and might as well go see what i want out of this or not - oh and she said she will stop talking to them completlly now. - cos i said i cant be with someone who does that - end of.
But then I will be coming home later and - I know this girl would pretty much come round to **** me now - cos i talk to her a lot and i dont think that was just one night of being horny tbh.
so...
Im seriouslly thinking of doing it one night.
I just need to know 2 things.
1) Does it make me a bad person if i do that.
2) Is this cheating in any kind? (dont see how if we aint together yet - but we have both said to eachother we will not be sleeping with anyone else - and I have not been - and neither has she (as far as i know lol)
Final thoughts before i decide to cross that line or not?
(also i cant beleve this is even happining - i cant get girls most of the time - so wtf happend?! lol)
The dumbest thing you can do is tell her "these are my boundaries, respect them or else." Once you do that ALL your cards are on the table and by knowing your hand you are completely screwed. If you want to get with this girl, and like others have said I don't know why when you can clearly do better, you have to take complete control. Write down your boundaries and what the consequence will be if she breaks them. Believe me she is going to break them, she is a boundary buster for sure. You might already have screwed yourself with this one by showing her you are needy and clingy. Your goal is to get her to chase you, right now you are doing the chasing.
From reading your conversation she is likely a cluster B. If you really want to be with her you are going to need balls of steel and extra thick skin. You are going to have to be able to control your emotions and keep them to yourself. Any hint that you are a BETA and she will eat you for lunch. And you also need to be prepared that if can turn it around and show her that you are Alpha, she will most likely see she cannot feed off of you and leave you alone to find easier prey.
From reading your conversation she is likely a cluster B. If you really want to be with her you are going to need balls of steel and extra thick skin. You are going to have to be able to control your emotions and keep them to yourself. Any hint that you are a BETA and she will eat you for lunch. And you also need to be prepared that if can turn it around and show her that you are Alpha, she will most likely see she cannot feed off of you and leave you alone to find easier prey.
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Girl is friends with exes? Cool story bro! She ain't bouncing off my f*ck piece until she gets rid of him/them.
My friend got into a relationship with a girl who was in still in touch with her ex and guess what? She wound up blowing his piece and her ex's too.
My friend got into a relationship with a girl who was in still in touch with her ex and guess what? She wound up blowing his piece and her ex's too.
Dude, just because she told you she has stopped talking to her ex's doesn't mean it is true. I can guarantee she has not. She is telling you what you want to hear and testing to see if you are still on the hook. You are getting played. You are naive and have no clue what cluster B's are capable of.
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