Well after only about a month of ignoring this girl completely, she comes crawling back in force. She keeps on telling me how sorry she is, she dumped her old bf and now wants me. Now when I was a big time AFC I was all over her while she was going out with him, and I spent alot of time trying to get her to like me. Well after a year (within that year being a couple months of no contact) she is like totally in my hands now. What do you guys suggest I do? Should I initiate a relationship and give her a chance, and now that I know for a fact that she likes me and wants to go out with me, should I start contact with her instead of doing the hard to get sort of thing (reversed that onto her haha) thanks.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Girl is back, oh sh1t
- Thread starter WhAcKeD!
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Kineti[C]harm
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LouieVaton Don
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Rule of thumb Whacked!, you should never intiate the relationship, you can only agree.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
You wanted this girl for over a year but couldn't have her, now that she wants you. you don't want her!
Quit playing games!
Quit playing games!