Well after only about a month of ignoring this girl completely, she comes crawling back in force. She keeps on telling me how sorry she is, she dumped her old bf and now wants me. Now when I was a big time AFC I was all over her while she was going out with him, and I spent alot of time trying to get her to like me. Well after a year (within that year being a couple months of no contact) she is like totally in my hands now. What do you guys suggest I do? Should I initiate a relationship and give her a chance, and now that I know for a fact that she likes me and wants to go out with me, should I start contact with her instead of doing the hard to get sort of thing (reversed that onto her haha) thanks.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Girl is back, oh sh1t
- Thread starter WhAcKeD!
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Kineti[C]harm
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LouieVaton Don
Senior Don Juan
Rule of thumb Whacked!, you should never intiate the relationship, you can only agree.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
You wanted this girl for over a year but couldn't have her, now that she wants you. you don't want her!
Quit playing games!
Quit playing games!