Well after only about a month of ignoring this girl completely, she comes crawling back in force. She keeps on telling me how sorry she is, she dumped her old bf and now wants me. Now when I was a big time AFC I was all over her while she was going out with him, and I spent alot of time trying to get her to like me. Well after a year (within that year being a couple months of no contact) she is like totally in my hands now. What do you guys suggest I do? Should I initiate a relationship and give her a chance, and now that I know for a fact that she likes me and wants to go out with me, should I start contact with her instead of doing the hard to get sort of thing (reversed that onto her haha) thanks.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Girl is back, oh sh1t
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Kineti[C]harm
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LouieVaton Don
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Rule of thumb Whacked!, you should never intiate the relationship, you can only agree.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
PuertoRican_Lover
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You wanted this girl for over a year but couldn't have her, now that she wants you. you don't want her!
Quit playing games!
Quit playing games!