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Girl im talking to said I was a playing hard to get

Dhoulmagus

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Im not even trying to play hard to get. I just have a life lol.
 

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devilkingx2

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since when do guys play hard to get?

oh, and, good job, that means she wants you.
 

jimmy18

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Is it because "you have a life" or because you are just not that interested in her?

Anyway, it sounds like she is more invested than you.

Keep it that way.
 

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When I was dating a lot women used to refer to me as "elusive", "hard to figure out", etc. I always took it as a sign my game was tight.
 

cfdagola

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jimmy18 said:
Is it because "you have a life" or because you are just not that interested in her?

Anyway, it sounds like she is more invested than you.

Keep it that way.
that's how i lost my woman by her always being more invested than me we're talking maybe 80% to my 20%

so no... this isn't always good advice.
 

Between_The_Lines

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cfdagola said:
that's how i lost my woman by her always being more invested than me we're talking maybe 80% to my 20%

so no... this isn't always good advice.
You have to do a little more than just raise a finger here and there.

A better approach is to really step it up and make her feel special when you see each other in person, but balance it out by limiting seeing each other to about two times a week, minimal texting, and keep phone calls short.
 
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