Dhoulmagus
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Im not even trying to play hard to get. I just have a life lol.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Girl im talking to said I was a playing hard to get
- Thread starter Dhoulmagus
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
since when do guys play hard to get?
oh, and, good job, that means she wants you.
oh, and, good job, that means she wants you.
MOTU
Master Don Juan
When I was dating a lot women used to refer to me as "elusive", "hard to figure out", etc. I always took it as a sign my game was tight.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Between_The_Lines
Master Don Juan
You have to do a little more than just raise a finger here and there.cfdagola said:
A better approach is to really step it up and make her feel special when you see each other in person, but balance it out by limiting seeing each other to about two times a week, minimal texting, and keep phone calls short.