Dhoulmagus
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Im not even trying to play hard to get. I just have a life lol.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Girl im talking to said I was a playing hard to get
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
since when do guys play hard to get?
oh, and, good job, that means she wants you.
oh, and, good job, that means she wants you.
MOTU
Master Don Juan
When I was dating a lot women used to refer to me as "elusive", "hard to figure out", etc. I always took it as a sign my game was tight.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Between_The_Lines
Master Don Juan
You have to do a little more than just raise a finger here and there.cfdagola said:
A better approach is to really step it up and make her feel special when you see each other in person, but balance it out by limiting seeing each other to about two times a week, minimal texting, and keep phone calls short.