"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girl im talking to said I was a playing hard to get

Dhoulmagus

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Im not even trying to play hard to get. I just have a life lol.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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devilkingx2

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since when do guys play hard to get?

oh, and, good job, that means she wants you.
 

jimmy18

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Is it because "you have a life" or because you are just not that interested in her?

Anyway, it sounds like she is more invested than you.

Keep it that way.
 

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When I was dating a lot women used to refer to me as "elusive", "hard to figure out", etc. I always took it as a sign my game was tight.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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jimmy18 said:
Is it because "you have a life" or because you are just not that interested in her?

Anyway, it sounds like she is more invested than you.

Keep it that way.
that's how i lost my woman by her always being more invested than me we're talking maybe 80% to my 20%

so no... this isn't always good advice.
 

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cfdagola said:
that's how i lost my woman by her always being more invested than me we're talking maybe 80% to my 20%

so no... this isn't always good advice.
You have to do a little more than just raise a finger here and there.

A better approach is to really step it up and make her feel special when you see each other in person, but balance it out by limiting seeing each other to about two times a week, minimal texting, and keep phone calls short.
 
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