"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Girl i'm dating doesn't want kids nor marriage
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
lamath
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this
djthiago1
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Thats what i thought, i just said 'ok' and changed the subject, no point in arguing with a woman over this.
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Women change their minds about many things, all the time, but especially about kids, and often about marriage. You are young, have your whole life ahead of you. There is no reason to not have amazing experiences with women that you enjoy and learn from, just because you don't think you'll marry her and have kids with her. You NEED these experiences to learn and grow so you'll be capable of being a good partner for the woman you ultimately choose to marry and have kids with (assuming you still want that some years down the road). If you don't gain experience with a number of women now, you increase your risk of getting stuck in a really awful relationship with a person you grow to either despise or simply don't care about, plus kids and all the crap that comes with divorce.
Live in the moment. Enjoy every minute. Do not worry about the future when it comes to women. Worry about the future when it comes to your purpose in life, job, hobbies and self improvement. This is the way.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
DEEZEDBRAH
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Wuddup playboy?
Age 21? So, she's not a free thinker. Yes, i advocate top form SMV 18-23. 110% dont think for oneself. Its girl power, victimhood on tren, and its cratered SMV followed by false accusations.
I would plate her. No commitment. Red pill her in action. Do it by action. Let her debunk her own stupidity. Aaron Clarey is pointing out that problem. Doesn't want kids or does bit won't take care of them. I think the latter is disgusting.
Anyway, if she is studying a stupid major and votes democratic, next her.
djthiago1
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Too late haha, we already had been in a relationship for around 3 weeks, and after numerous attempts at sex, she told me she's probably assexual, and that she hates sex and never had pleasure from it in her life, i kind of suspected it by the way she would go into a defensive posture hiding her face with her palms during sex, really strange stuff, felt like i was raping her every time we tried, anyway i just dumped her, so it's all good now.
She said i had two choices, stay with her or find someone who enjoys sex, i'm 25, it was easy to answer.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
DEEZEDBRAH
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Edit your post kuz. With doxing and your avi, you don't need that ****.
You're on your way. Good lookin dude (full homo) lol jk
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Stay on the grind. What do you study?