Girl i'm dating doesn't want kids nor marriage

[djthiago1]

I'm always in it for the long term, should i waste time with someone who thinks like this? She's 21 btw.

 

[Robert28]

She will change her mind on both things when 25 rolls around. Trust me. I’d just enjoy the ride for now. Who the hell needs all that pressure at 21?

 

[lamath]

She will change her mind on both things when 25 rolls around. Trust me. I’d just enjoy the ride for now. Who the hell needs all that pressure at 21?

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[djthiago1]

She will change her mind on both things when 25 rolls around. Trust me. I’d just enjoy the ride for now. Who the hell needs all that pressure at 21?

Thats what i thought, i just said 'ok' and changed the subject, no point in arguing with a woman over this.

 

[oldmanofthesea]

Been there, done that, got the divorce when she suddenly changed her mind and decided she wanted kids (and the divorce was her idea, justified in large part due to her change of tune on wanting kids).

Women change their minds about many things, all the time, but especially about kids, and often about marriage. You are young, have your whole life ahead of you. There is no reason to not have amazing experiences with women that you enjoy and learn from, just because you don't think you'll marry her and have kids with her. You NEED these experiences to learn and grow so you'll be capable of being a good partner for the woman you ultimately choose to marry and have kids with (assuming you still want that some years down the road). If you don't gain experience with a number of women now, you increase your risk of getting stuck in a really awful relationship with a person you grow to either despise or simply don't care about, plus kids and all the crap that comes with divorce.

Live in the moment. Enjoy every minute. Do not worry about the future when it comes to women. Worry about the future when it comes to your purpose in life, job, hobbies and self improvement. This is the way.

 

[Glassguy]

Bang the life out of her and if she doesnt change her mind on the things that are important to your life goals, trade her in for a nicer model.

 

[Epic Days]

Yeah. I've heard that one before. LMAO
That means she's going to be pregnant before you know it. Go ahead. Let your guard down.

 

[Bayne05]

In my experience women between 18 to 23 aren't that much into commitment or marriage. Most of her friends probably aren't married or have kids so she isn't feeling the pressure of being left out. Like most women she'll change her mind when she gets close to 30 and all her friends have husbands and families.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I'm always in it for the long term, should i waste time with someone who thinks like this? She's 21 btw.

Wuddup playboy?

Age 21? So, she's not a free thinker. Yes, i advocate top form SMV 18-23. 110% dont think for oneself. Its girl power, victimhood on tren, and its cratered SMV followed by false accusations.

I would plate her. No commitment. Red pill her in action. Do it by action. Let her debunk her own stupidity. Aaron Clarey is pointing out that problem. Doesn't want kids or does bit won't take care of them. I think the latter is disgusting.

Anyway, if she is studying a stupid major and votes democratic, next her.

 

[djthiago1]

Wuddup playboy?

Age 21? So, she's not a free thinker. Yes, i advocate top form SMV 18-23. 110% dont think for oneself. Its girl power, victimhood on tren, and its cratered SMV followed by false accusations.

I would plate her. No commitment. Red pill her in action. Do it by action. Let her debunk her own stupidity. Aaron Clarey is pointing out that problem. Doesn't want kids or does bit won't take care of them. I think the latter is disgusting.

Anyway, if she is studying a stupid major and votes democratic, next her.

Too late haha, we already had been in a relationship for around 3 weeks, and after numerous attempts at sex, she told me she's probably assexual, and that she hates sex and never had pleasure from it in her life, i kind of suspected it by the way she would go into a defensive posture hiding her face with her palms during sex, really strange stuff, felt like i was raping her every time we tried, anyway i just dumped her, so it's all good now.
She said i had two choices, stay with her or find someone who enjoys sex, i'm 25, it was easy to answer.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

She said i had two choices, stay with her or find someone who enjoys sex, i'm 25, it was easy to answer.

Edit your post kuz. With doxing and your avi, you don't need that ****.

You're on your way. Good lookin dude (full homo) lol jk
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Stay on the grind. What do you study?