"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Girl i'm dating doesn't want kids nor marriage
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
lamath
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this
djthiago1
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Thats what i thought, i just said 'ok' and changed the subject, no point in arguing with a woman over this.
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Women change their minds about many things, all the time, but especially about kids, and often about marriage. You are young, have your whole life ahead of you. There is no reason to not have amazing experiences with women that you enjoy and learn from, just because you don't think you'll marry her and have kids with her. You NEED these experiences to learn and grow so you'll be capable of being a good partner for the woman you ultimately choose to marry and have kids with (assuming you still want that some years down the road). If you don't gain experience with a number of women now, you increase your risk of getting stuck in a really awful relationship with a person you grow to either despise or simply don't care about, plus kids and all the crap that comes with divorce.
Live in the moment. Enjoy every minute. Do not worry about the future when it comes to women. Worry about the future when it comes to your purpose in life, job, hobbies and self improvement. This is the way.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
DEEZEDBRAH
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Wuddup playboy?
Age 21? So, she's not a free thinker. Yes, i advocate top form SMV 18-23. 110% dont think for oneself. Its girl power, victimhood on tren, and its cratered SMV followed by false accusations.
I would plate her. No commitment. Red pill her in action. Do it by action. Let her debunk her own stupidity. Aaron Clarey is pointing out that problem. Doesn't want kids or does bit won't take care of them. I think the latter is disgusting.
Anyway, if she is studying a stupid major and votes democratic, next her.
djthiago1
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Too late haha, we already had been in a relationship for around 3 weeks, and after numerous attempts at sex, she told me she's probably assexual, and that she hates sex and never had pleasure from it in her life, i kind of suspected it by the way she would go into a defensive posture hiding her face with her palms during sex, really strange stuff, felt like i was raping her every time we tried, anyway i just dumped her, so it's all good now.
She said i had two choices, stay with her or find someone who enjoys sex, i'm 25, it was easy to answer.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
DEEZEDBRAH
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Edit your post kuz. With doxing and your avi, you don't need that ****.
You're on your way. Good lookin dude (full homo) lol jk
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Stay on the grind. What do you study?