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Yeah I’m not expecting anything long term with her. She seems volatile. Hoping she tries to win me over tho. I have another FWB who is doing that and she knows I’m seeing other girls and has accepted it and even buys lingerie to wear for me. It’s perfectHad this with a girl recently, it was fine for a few weeks, then it was mentioned more and more until she began to sound like a broken record, and then one night her frustration seemed to get the better of her, and she made some pretty degrading comments about my character.. cya
She is liking that he's presenting himself as outcome independent and not weak. This is good.
but when most women say they want that, they usually mean they want a man who won't freak out when she shows HER emotions.
@Harry Wilmington IDS seems to have diagnosed this well. She is likely emotional and even @SargeMaximus is acknowledging that. This is likely to have a short shelf life but this won't be terrible interaction since it will be cut short before it gets bad.She seems volatile.
The funny thing is I think that I am emotionally available. I certainly don’t hide my emotions actively. I’m quite stoic and logical but it’s not active guardedness. And I also am quite open with peopleUp to a point. They think they can change you. Then they give up and find someone who is emotionally available.
Maybe she just hasn't seen that side of you enough then? I'm not saying there is anything wrong with that, btw...The funny thing is I think that I am emotionally available. I certainly don’t hide my emotions actively. I’m quite stoic and logical but it’s not active guardedness. And I also am quite open with people
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Ah she said it to you and you brought it up in text teasing.No because she said it first when we were in bed. Like I said, I don’t show you guys everything. Stop assuming
Yeah wtf kind of comment is that anyways? I’m not autistic but if I was isn’t that like borderline hate speech?You sound jaded, man, in all fairness.
Yeah I’m certainly not going to force it of course. Ideally a woman wants us as we are. And if she is trying to change me, trying to give her that without it being genuine is just another form of supplication imoMaybe she just hasn't seen that side of you enough then? I'm not saying there is anything wrong with that, btw...
Not every woman is qualified to get to see that side of me.
If you were, no it wouldn't be helpful at all.Yeah wtf kind of comment is that anyways? I’m not autistic but if I was isn’t that like borderline hate speech?
Show him compassion. He's in a transitional moment.Or if I was autistic maybe he’s just mad he as a Normie can’t get pvssy as easily as I can.
Exactly. Play on anything like that. Turn it into a challenge for her. Women love challenges. If she believes she could be the one to make you "emotionally available", let her try.......always keep her a whisker away from getting the challenge. Like mystery used to say "the thread and kitten theory". Alway within reach but every so slightly out of reach...Anyhow yeah I think I’ll ask her like you said see how she plans to make me emotionally available. I already told her I was looking forward to the challenge and that I hoped she didn’t get disappointed if she couldn’t get me to soften up