Ok there is a girl I am interested in. She is clearly interested in me however is only interested when I am not. Its a case of where she is one of those girls who loves the chase and as soon as you show interest backs off. Its basically a lose lose situation. What I would like to know is is it possible to actually get these types of girls or are they emotionally unstable, love guy attention and the challenge? Im sure some people have encountered females similar to this, you know the ones who only love the chase and never commit.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Girl I am interested in.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
MightyMate
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Im just like this girl. But im in LTR. So she also can be caught.
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Catch her at her own game. If she shows insane interest, grab her and kiss her before she can breathe a word. Then ignore her.
She'll come running back
She'll come running back
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LongDrinkofWater
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Just pick and choose the types of attention to give her. Don't give her anything concrete to go on when you give her attention (no "beyond a shadow of a doubt" words). No words, just actions.
Grabbing her and kissing her, then ignoring her would be a great thing to do, especially if done in a playful way.
I've known several girls like this, and they can be a lot of fun to work on. The fun part is seeing how they go about eliciting that elusive attention from you.......
Grabbing her and kissing her, then ignoring her would be a great thing to do, especially if done in a playful way.
I've known several girls like this, and they can be a lot of fun to work on. The fun part is seeing how they go about eliciting that elusive attention from you.......
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Look again.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
ganji games is when you ignore her completely so she becomes more interested in you. In the short run ganji games work great, in the long run, its not the best move to do.
Its such a shame we all have to master these games to get girls. Girls are so fvcking crazy. She likes you ...and once she finds out you like her, she doesnt like you anymore. Thats great....the minute a girl does that to me, im over her and done. No way am i letting a girl run me though the mill with these head tricks. I have to much to offer to be pu$$y footing around.
I say you cut this girl off completely and never look back. But you probably wont because you seem clueless.
Its such a shame we all have to master these games to get girls. Girls are so fvcking crazy. She likes you ...and once she finds out you like her, she doesnt like you anymore. Thats great....the minute a girl does that to me, im over her and done. No way am i letting a girl run me though the mill with these head tricks. I have to much to offer to be pu$$y footing around.
I say you cut this girl off completely and never look back. But you probably wont because you seem clueless.
MightyMate
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Girls lik that are caugh only by luck. For exampl You have to get some social status or date many woman so she sees You as a value and when she tries a date. You say You are busy. Then date her. Then busy, Etc. Hard to say.
Ye I think ill just cut her off completely, although before when I did that she just came after me harder and I thought then maybe it could happen but as i showed interest she backed off. Im gonna have to just follow through this time and move on as these girls are almost impossible to get.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
blueangel83
Senior Don Juan
I'm the type that chases men and does not like to be chased.
Sometimes I respond to men who chase me, only if they're hot.
Sometimes I respond to men who chase me, only if they're hot.
tell me about it...some women do this for attention/boost ego. And some are just very good at playing aloof while hiding their true interest...in their minds they're playing out scenarios and keep wondering why you arent chasing them.
i guess a lot of times it's also easy to mistaken a girl's treating you nice for IL in you.
anyway just keep your eyes open and separate the attention hoes from the real ones with real interest.