Ok there is a girl I am interested in. She is clearly interested in me however is only interested when I am not. Its a case of where she is one of those girls who loves the chase and as soon as you show interest backs off. Its basically a lose lose situation. What I would like to know is is it possible to actually get these types of girls or are they emotionally unstable, love guy attention and the challenge? Im sure some people have encountered females similar to this, you know the ones who only love the chase and never commit.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Girl I am interested in.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
MightyMate
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Im just like this girl. But im in LTR. So she also can be caught.
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Catch her at her own game. If she shows insane interest, grab her and kiss her before she can breathe a word. Then ignore her.
She'll come running back
She'll come running back
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
LongDrinkofWater
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Just pick and choose the types of attention to give her. Don't give her anything concrete to go on when you give her attention (no "beyond a shadow of a doubt" words). No words, just actions.
Grabbing her and kissing her, then ignoring her would be a great thing to do, especially if done in a playful way.
I've known several girls like this, and they can be a lot of fun to work on. The fun part is seeing how they go about eliciting that elusive attention from you.......
Grabbing her and kissing her, then ignoring her would be a great thing to do, especially if done in a playful way.
I've known several girls like this, and they can be a lot of fun to work on. The fun part is seeing how they go about eliciting that elusive attention from you.......
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Look again.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
ganji games is when you ignore her completely so she becomes more interested in you. In the short run ganji games work great, in the long run, its not the best move to do.
Its such a shame we all have to master these games to get girls. Girls are so fvcking crazy. She likes you ...and once she finds out you like her, she doesnt like you anymore. Thats great....the minute a girl does that to me, im over her and done. No way am i letting a girl run me though the mill with these head tricks. I have to much to offer to be pu$$y footing around.
I say you cut this girl off completely and never look back. But you probably wont because you seem clueless.
Its such a shame we all have to master these games to get girls. Girls are so fvcking crazy. She likes you ...and once she finds out you like her, she doesnt like you anymore. Thats great....the minute a girl does that to me, im over her and done. No way am i letting a girl run me though the mill with these head tricks. I have to much to offer to be pu$$y footing around.
I say you cut this girl off completely and never look back. But you probably wont because you seem clueless.
MightyMate
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Girls lik that are caugh only by luck. For exampl You have to get some social status or date many woman so she sees You as a value and when she tries a date. You say You are busy. Then date her. Then busy, Etc. Hard to say.
Ye I think ill just cut her off completely, although before when I did that she just came after me harder and I thought then maybe it could happen but as i showed interest she backed off. Im gonna have to just follow through this time and move on as these girls are almost impossible to get.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
blueangel83
Senior Don Juan
I'm the type that chases men and does not like to be chased.
Sometimes I respond to men who chase me, only if they're hot.
Sometimes I respond to men who chase me, only if they're hot.
tell me about it...some women do this for attention/boost ego. And some are just very good at playing aloof while hiding their true interest...in their minds they're playing out scenarios and keep wondering why you arent chasing them.
i guess a lot of times it's also easy to mistaken a girl's treating you nice for IL in you.
anyway just keep your eyes open and separate the attention hoes from the real ones with real interest.