a friend of mine is actually very attractive and gets hiton/approached alot. but the problem is she thinkes she is butt ugly and everytime we talk she brings this negativity into the conversation and it bothers me lol. well she is somewhat like a best friend of 4-5 years and im not trying to lay her or something. how would you show her that she isnt a ug? reasoning doesnt work, you cant just tell them that they are beautiful and expect them to buy it.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Go read the Bible then stick it in her ass.
Pffft "How do I tell my hot friend shes hot, all the guys that hit on her are apparently not enough to boost her ego, it has to be me, help me supplicate guys"
Get the fvck out of here you douche bag.
Pffft "How do I tell my hot friend shes hot, all the guys that hit on her are apparently not enough to boost her ego, it has to be me, help me supplicate guys"
Get the fvck out of here you douche bag.
lol wtf???Originally posted by ( . )( . )
Go read the Bible then stick it in her ass.
Pffft "How do I tell my hot friend shes hot, all the guys that hit on her are apparently not enough to boost her ego, it has to be me, help me supplicate guys"
Get the fvck out of here you douche bag.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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LOLOriginally posted by ( . )( . )
Go read the Bible then stick it in her ass.
Pffft "How do I tell my hot friend shes hot, all the guys that hit on her are apparently not enough to boost her ego, it has to be me, help me supplicate guys"
Get the fvck out of here you douche bag.
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You should not try to show her that she's not ugly. But rather, in subtle ways, confirm her own self-image. I don't mean to put it in her face like "yeah, I agree with you; the way you see yourself is right on the money, you are ugly". But rather agree by failing to disagree. Tell her what a great person she is or some B.S.
Never bother to "fix" girls with bad self-esteem. That problem comes from inside themselves, and your attempts will only backfire on you.
With some of them, almost anything you say to them will be interpreted in ways that confirm their bad self-image, so you look insincere even if you aren't. ("He's just saying nice things to me not because they are true, which they are obviously not, but because of ...''). The imagined reason could be anything from you being a nice guy, to you faking being a nice guy to get in her pants, etc.
Others are just fishing for attention and compliments. Never give chicks exactly what they want, right? If she's fishing for a compliment, find something in which she has solid confidence and compliment that. You gave her a compliment, but not exactly the one she wanted. If she thinks she's has a big ass, tell her that it makes her waist look smaller.