"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girl grabs my money

rrrrr

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I'm not going to jump to the conclusion she wanted you to buy her a drink. I thnk she wanted to talk to you, and the thing that stuck out, the thing that she could open with, was that you had $5 in your hand. It's similar to when I go out with my college jacket, people will go up and talk to me about it. If I wear a whte shirt and jeans and nothing else, there's nothing unique about it. If on top of that I had this wicked cool necklace or whatever, someone could approach me and say hey cool necklace.

I think that's the same thing that happened here. The fact he had $5 in his hand was her opener... something she could bring up. But she stole it and he IGNORED it "playing cool" and looked like a pushover in the process.

Then she busted his balls and again looked like a pushover. All in all it wasn't a good performance. I'm not saying she was interested in him, who knows, we will never know. But I do know he didn't handle it well. What do domestics cost $5 at this place? Expensive bar to get ****ed up!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Max Power

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rrrrr said:
I'm not going to jump to the conclusion she wanted you to buy her a drink. I thnk she wanted to talk to you, and the thing that stuck out, the thing that she could open with, was that you had $5 in your hand. It's similar to when I go out with my college jacket, people will go up and talk to me about it. If I wear a whte shirt and jeans and nothing else, there's nothing unique about it. If on top of that I had this wicked cool necklace or whatever, someone could approach me and say hey cool necklace.

I think that's the same thing that happened here. The fact he had $5 in his hand was her opener... something she could bring up. But she stole it and he IGNORED it "playing cool" and looked like a pushover in the process.

Then she busted his balls and again looked like a pushover. All in all it wasn't a good performance. I'm not saying she was interested in him, who knows, we will never know. But I do know he didn't handle it well. What do domestics cost $5 at this place? Expensive bar to get ****ed up!
It's Canada man -- we have crazy sin taxes. Expensive drinks and this is a high class place so I don't think I could get away with calling her "b!tch" there like some people want me to.

Speaking from the perspective of the person who was there when the money thing happened, I can say that I think rrrrr has pretty much nailed what happened and exactly how much i screwed up.
 

Kev07

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perhaps, don't call it screwing up, it was just some girl at a bar that decided to chat you up, make a mental note not to let it happen again and forget about it (kinda contradictory i know, but you get the point)
 
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