"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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rrrrr

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I'm not going to jump to the conclusion she wanted you to buy her a drink. I thnk she wanted to talk to you, and the thing that stuck out, the thing that she could open with, was that you had $5 in your hand. It's similar to when I go out with my college jacket, people will go up and talk to me about it. If I wear a whte shirt and jeans and nothing else, there's nothing unique about it. If on top of that I had this wicked cool necklace or whatever, someone could approach me and say hey cool necklace.

I think that's the same thing that happened here. The fact he had $5 in his hand was her opener... something she could bring up. But she stole it and he IGNORED it "playing cool" and looked like a pushover in the process.

Then she busted his balls and again looked like a pushover. All in all it wasn't a good performance. I'm not saying she was interested in him, who knows, we will never know. But I do know he didn't handle it well. What do domestics cost $5 at this place? Expensive bar to get ****ed up!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Max Power

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rrrrr said:
I'm not going to jump to the conclusion she wanted you to buy her a drink. I thnk she wanted to talk to you, and the thing that stuck out, the thing that she could open with, was that you had $5 in your hand. It's similar to when I go out with my college jacket, people will go up and talk to me about it. If I wear a whte shirt and jeans and nothing else, there's nothing unique about it. If on top of that I had this wicked cool necklace or whatever, someone could approach me and say hey cool necklace.

I think that's the same thing that happened here. The fact he had $5 in his hand was her opener... something she could bring up. But she stole it and he IGNORED it "playing cool" and looked like a pushover in the process.

Then she busted his balls and again looked like a pushover. All in all it wasn't a good performance. I'm not saying she was interested in him, who knows, we will never know. But I do know he didn't handle it well. What do domestics cost $5 at this place? Expensive bar to get ****ed up!
It's Canada man -- we have crazy sin taxes. Expensive drinks and this is a high class place so I don't think I could get away with calling her "b!tch" there like some people want me to.

Speaking from the perspective of the person who was there when the money thing happened, I can say that I think rrrrr has pretty much nailed what happened and exactly how much i screwed up.
 

Kev07

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perhaps, don't call it screwing up, it was just some girl at a bar that decided to chat you up, make a mental note not to let it happen again and forget about it (kinda contradictory i know, but you get the point)
 
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