"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Girl from 5 months ago is back

wonderer

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5 months ago a girl I had been involved with for 7 months friendzoned me. I told her that we cannot be friends and we should'nt speak or see each other again. We removed each other from social media and deleted numbers. That was the end of it until last night she liked 3 of my photos on instagram, I liked 2 back, however no messages were exchanged either way.

I have other girls now and im not really bothered, should I be trying to turn this into a plate?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BURT MCQUEEN

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I liked 2 back,
wrong move, never give her a positive feedback again in the future.

I have other girls now and im not really bothered, should I be trying to turn this into a plate?
Let her chase you, but don't spend time and energy with her, usually it's never worth to have any kind of relationship with girls that friendzoned you. I advice you to manipulate her just for revenge, does she open her legs without efforts? Good take advantage of her throw her away. I mean She has to spin with no efforts.
You got the drift now....


I told her that we cannot be friends and we should'nt speak or see each other again.
And never use overt comunication
 

Billtx49

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however no messages were exchanged either way.

should I be trying to turn this into a plate?
The situation as it was left with her five months ago hasn’t really changed then has it…

No, a photo like does Not signal any intent from her to communicate with you does it… Liking photos is nothing more than what friends do…
She threw some chum in the water to see if you’re hungry enough to get hooked back into the friendzone.
 
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She's prob not interested but if you are looking for some quick action a little how have you been IG message won't hurt at all. Good for you to keep spinning!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dude99

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5 months ago a girl I had been involved with for 7 months friendzoned me. I told her that we cannot be friends and we should'nt speak or see each other again. We removed each other from social media and deleted numbers. That was the end of it until last night she liked 3 of my photos on instagram, I liked 2 back, however no messages were exchanged either way.

I have other girls now and im not really bothered, should I be trying to turn this into a plate?
Liking photos on instagram isnt putting any effort in at all. That isnt even bread crumbs. Do not like any back ( i see it is too late for that.)

Ignore. Carry on dating other women.
 

Alvafe

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serious can anyone explain this instagram likes as meaning?

the way the topic was writen I though she called or the very least send a msg, but she like pics on instagram and he start to wonder what is up?

there is no meaning there is nothing, hell I don't even belive you notice something like that
 
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