"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girl from 5 months ago is back

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5 months ago a girl I had been involved with for 7 months friendzoned me. I told her that we cannot be friends and we should'nt speak or see each other again. We removed each other from social media and deleted numbers. That was the end of it until last night she liked 3 of my photos on instagram, I liked 2 back, however no messages were exchanged either way.

I have other girls now and im not really bothered, should I be trying to turn this into a plate?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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BURT MCQUEEN

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wonderer said:
I liked 2 back,
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wrong move, never give her a positive feedback again in the future.

wonderer said:
I have other girls now and im not really bothered, should I be trying to turn this into a plate?
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Let her chase you, but don't spend time and energy with her, usually it's never worth to have any kind of relationship with girls that friendzoned you. I advice you to manipulate her just for revenge, does she open her legs without efforts? Good take advantage of her throw her away. I mean She has to spin with no efforts.
You got the drift now....


wonderer said:
I told her that we cannot be friends and we should'nt speak or see each other again.
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And never use overt comunication
 
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wonderer said:
however no messages were exchanged either way.

should I be trying to turn this into a plate?
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The situation as it was left with her five months ago hasn’t really changed then has it…

No, a photo like does Not signal any intent from her to communicate with you does it… Liking photos is nothing more than what friends do…
She threw some chum in the water to see if you’re hungry enough to get hooked back into the friendzone.
 
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She's prob not interested but if you are looking for some quick action a little how have you been IG message won't hurt at all. Good for you to keep spinning!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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wonderer said:
5 months ago a girl I had been involved with for 7 months friendzoned me. I told her that we cannot be friends and we should'nt speak or see each other again. We removed each other from social media and deleted numbers. That was the end of it until last night she liked 3 of my photos on instagram, I liked 2 back, however no messages were exchanged either way.

I have other girls now and im not really bothered, should I be trying to turn this into a plate?
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Liking photos on instagram isnt putting any effort in at all. That isnt even bread crumbs. Do not like any back ( i see it is too late for that.)

Ignore. Carry on dating other women.
 
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serious can anyone explain this instagram likes as meaning?

the way the topic was writen I though she called or the very least send a msg, but she like pics on instagram and he start to wonder what is up?

there is no meaning there is nothing, hell I don't even belive you notice something like that
 
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