A girl I've been friends with for some time whom I've considered romantically but over all am not attracted to her that way, has been acting really nice towards me lately. She'll offer to make me breakfast when she's home alone, take me out for ice cream, invite me to family outings, etc. Basically things I wouldn't think a female friend would do. Is she interested in me romantically or have I just never noticed this behavior before and is pretty typical?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Girl friend interest or?
- Thread starter cNfny
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
NickBe said:Usually when a girl invites me over for breakfast she gets cream for desert.
Haha. Exactly! You are being ****y/funny and don't even realize it.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
If I wasn't looking at it from a humurous point of view, I would wonder what kind of woman would think to herself
"wow NickBe, you are so confident you want to cream me". Hardly a confidence statement in itself.
Some quality women you are hitting up, I tell you. Are they also 15 year olds? Or just women who act 15?
"wow NickBe, you are so confident you want to cream me". Hardly a confidence statement in itself.
Some quality women you are hitting up, I tell you. Are they also 15 year olds? Or just women who act 15?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
Don't you dare address the Dating Gods that way!
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.