A girl I've been friends with for some time whom I've considered romantically but over all am not attracted to her that way, has been acting really nice towards me lately. She'll offer to make me breakfast when she's home alone, take me out for ice cream, invite me to family outings, etc. Basically things I wouldn't think a female friend would do. Is she interested in me romantically or have I just never noticed this behavior before and is pretty typical?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Girl friend interest or?
- Thread starter cNfny
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
NickBe said:Usually when a girl invites me over for breakfast she gets cream for desert.
Haha. Exactly! You are being ****y/funny and don't even realize it.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
If I wasn't looking at it from a humurous point of view, I would wonder what kind of woman would think to herself
"wow NickBe, you are so confident you want to cream me". Hardly a confidence statement in itself.
Some quality women you are hitting up, I tell you. Are they also 15 year olds? Or just women who act 15?
"wow NickBe, you are so confident you want to cream me". Hardly a confidence statement in itself.
Some quality women you are hitting up, I tell you. Are they also 15 year olds? Or just women who act 15?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
Don't you dare address the Dating Gods that way!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.