"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girl friend interest or?

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A girl I've been friends with for some time whom I've considered romantically but over all am not attracted to her that way, has been acting really nice towards me lately. She'll offer to make me breakfast when she's home alone, take me out for ice cream, invite me to family outings, etc. Basically things I wouldn't think a female friend would do. Is she interested in me romantically or have I just never noticed this behavior before and is pretty typical?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Usually when a girl invites me over for breakfast she gets cream for desert.
 

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NickBe said:
Usually when a girl invites me over for breakfast she gets cream for desert.

Haha. Exactly! You are being ****y/funny and don't even realize it.
 

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That is not ****y, that is confident. Read my reply their is a distinction between ****iness and confidence.
 

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If I wasn't looking at it from a humurous point of view, I would wonder what kind of woman would think to herself

"wow NickBe, you are so confident you want to cream me". Hardly a confidence statement in itself.

Some quality women you are hitting up, I tell you. Are they also 15 year olds? Or just women who act 15?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Haha I don't usually talk like that to women I just met. Not until they are in my bedroom on their knees. However there are no women here so it doesn't apply does it?
 

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How is any of that pertaining to my question?
 

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Don't you dare address the Dating Gods that way!
 

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haha well i didn't intend to cause a scuffle. just looking for some answers here.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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