Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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alright, im kinda new at this DJ thing, but i read the whole bible and improved alot.

so on the 2nd date, i kiss closed and already had her ontop of me, we made out in the car for like an hour or almost.

but everytime i tried to grasp her jugs and take off her panties, she takes my hands off them.

i keep repeating this and she doesnt flake. i think im doing a pretty good job so far, because with a hot girl like this, i havent gone this far YET.

but im afraid that next date, i might fail on doing a **** close. which id really like. otherwise it'd be a waste of time.

should i just move on? what now?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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to add to this i was real hard, and she was real wet but still wont let me... wtf.

she told me we had to have boundaries and limitations?! wtf?!

what the hell..

had to go home with blue balls. even though she treated me for breakfast that day, (she insisted).. i felt as though it was an incomplete day.

i dont know what i could have done to make it any better. did my best.
 

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Can u please.. elaborate a little bit.

I appreciate the reply, but what are takeaways, LMR and ASD?

I thank u very much.
 

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oh thanks so much. :) :)

this is so much help. i'll check back in a couple of days for results.

hope this works. :) :cool:
 

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thats only in a f-buddy, str, ons rite?

can't do that in a ltr or beggining of ltr mainly, or shell jsut get pissed and think you only want sex and then never see u again
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by lordson
thats only in a f-buddy, str, ons rite?

can't do that in a ltr or beggining of ltr mainly, or shell jsut get pissed and think you only want sex and then never see u again
what if... i am unsure of what i want? ofcourse i wanna shag her. but she is also good LTR material imo.
 

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shes just not a *****. she likes you, but its too early. so you can wait on not try to **** her on next date, or dump her. you can also tell her you feel bad because she doesnt want tyou, and when she feels guilty you hit her. i did tha ta few times ha ha.
 
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