"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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alright, im kinda new at this DJ thing, but i read the whole bible and improved alot.

so on the 2nd date, i kiss closed and already had her ontop of me, we made out in the car for like an hour or almost.

but everytime i tried to grasp her jugs and take off her panties, she takes my hands off them.

i keep repeating this and she doesnt flake. i think im doing a pretty good job so far, because with a hot girl like this, i havent gone this far YET.

but im afraid that next date, i might fail on doing a **** close. which id really like. otherwise it'd be a waste of time.

should i just move on? what now?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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to add to this i was real hard, and she was real wet but still wont let me... wtf.

she told me we had to have boundaries and limitations?! wtf?!

what the hell..

had to go home with blue balls. even though she treated me for breakfast that day, (she insisted).. i felt as though it was an incomplete day.

i dont know what i could have done to make it any better. did my best.
 

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Can u please.. elaborate a little bit.

I appreciate the reply, but what are takeaways, LMR and ASD?

I thank u very much.
 

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oh thanks so much. :) :)

this is so much help. i'll check back in a couple of days for results.

hope this works. :) :cool:
 

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thats only in a f-buddy, str, ons rite?

can't do that in a ltr or beggining of ltr mainly, or shell jsut get pissed and think you only want sex and then never see u again
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by lordson
thats only in a f-buddy, str, ons rite?

can't do that in a ltr or beggining of ltr mainly, or shell jsut get pissed and think you only want sex and then never see u again
what if... i am unsure of what i want? ofcourse i wanna shag her. but she is also good LTR material imo.
 

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shes just not a *****. she likes you, but its too early. so you can wait on not try to **** her on next date, or dump her. you can also tell her you feel bad because she doesnt want tyou, and when she feels guilty you hit her. i did tha ta few times ha ha.
 
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