"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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girl doesnt let me...

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alright, im kinda new at this DJ thing, but i read the whole bible and improved alot.

so on the 2nd date, i kiss closed and already had her ontop of me, we made out in the car for like an hour or almost.

but everytime i tried to grasp her jugs and take off her panties, she takes my hands off them.

i keep repeating this and she doesnt flake. i think im doing a pretty good job so far, because with a hot girl like this, i havent gone this far YET.

but im afraid that next date, i might fail on doing a **** close. which id really like. otherwise it'd be a waste of time.

should i just move on? what now?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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to add to this i was real hard, and she was real wet but still wont let me... wtf.

she told me we had to have boundaries and limitations?! wtf?!

what the hell..

had to go home with blue balls. even though she treated me for breakfast that day, (she insisted).. i felt as though it was an incomplete day.

i dont know what i could have done to make it any better. did my best.
 
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Can u please.. elaborate a little bit.

I appreciate the reply, but what are takeaways, LMR and ASD?

I thank u very much.
 
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oh thanks so much. :) :)

this is so much help. i'll check back in a couple of days for results.

hope this works. :) :cool:
 
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thats only in a f-buddy, str, ons rite?

can't do that in a ltr or beggining of ltr mainly, or shell jsut get pissed and think you only want sex and then never see u again
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by lordson
thats only in a f-buddy, str, ons rite?

can't do that in a ltr or beggining of ltr mainly, or shell jsut get pissed and think you only want sex and then never see u again
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what if... i am unsure of what i want? ofcourse i wanna shag her. but she is also good LTR material imo.
 
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shes just not a *****. she likes you, but its too early. so you can wait on not try to **** her on next date, or dump her. you can also tell her you feel bad because she doesnt want tyou, and when she feels guilty you hit her. i did tha ta few times ha ha.
 
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