"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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girl doesnt let me...

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alright, im kinda new at this DJ thing, but i read the whole bible and improved alot.

so on the 2nd date, i kiss closed and already had her ontop of me, we made out in the car for like an hour or almost.

but everytime i tried to grasp her jugs and take off her panties, she takes my hands off them.

i keep repeating this and she doesnt flake. i think im doing a pretty good job so far, because with a hot girl like this, i havent gone this far YET.

but im afraid that next date, i might fail on doing a **** close. which id really like. otherwise it'd be a waste of time.

should i just move on? what now?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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to add to this i was real hard, and she was real wet but still wont let me... wtf.

she told me we had to have boundaries and limitations?! wtf?!

what the hell..

had to go home with blue balls. even though she treated me for breakfast that day, (she insisted).. i felt as though it was an incomplete day.

i dont know what i could have done to make it any better. did my best.
 
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Can u please.. elaborate a little bit.

I appreciate the reply, but what are takeaways, LMR and ASD?

I thank u very much.
 
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oh thanks so much. :) :)

this is so much help. i'll check back in a couple of days for results.

hope this works. :) :cool:
 
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thats only in a f-buddy, str, ons rite?

can't do that in a ltr or beggining of ltr mainly, or shell jsut get pissed and think you only want sex and then never see u again
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by lordson
thats only in a f-buddy, str, ons rite?

can't do that in a ltr or beggining of ltr mainly, or shell jsut get pissed and think you only want sex and then never see u again
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what if... i am unsure of what i want? ofcourse i wanna shag her. but she is also good LTR material imo.
 
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shes just not a *****. she likes you, but its too early. so you can wait on not try to **** her on next date, or dump her. you can also tell her you feel bad because she doesnt want tyou, and when she feels guilty you hit her. i did tha ta few times ha ha.
 
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