"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girl coming in my city, and then wants me to go to Montreal with her.

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Yeah so this older woman in her 30's wants me to go to Montreal with her for a weekend. Is this an IOI, btw she thinks im a huge player, and she's maybe an hb 7. How do I game this?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Wolf are you really this ****ing ignorant, this is a french name.
 
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Is she paying or does she expect you to?

Do you want to go to Montreal?
 
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Some folks get a bit of kino and wonder, sensibly enough, is this girl showing me some interest? But this girl invites you to a far away city to presumably sleep in the same room if not the same bed with her and she just might be wearing something skimpy if not "nothing at all".

Just a hunch, but I would guess that she just might be interested in you. But then again, I have always just looked at these things with as much common sense as possible.
 
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how far are you from montreal first of all

second of all, she might just want company and it might not be an ioi at all, but hey, if your game is tight, this is a great opportunity to **** her brains out


you're gona have to give more info before anyone can tell you "how you should game this"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She was my roomate for two months, then she went to washington, and she kept sending me messages, like I miss you, and the city i'm in ect..

When she was here, she kept telling me story's about her cheating on her boyfriends, and that I reminded me of one of the guys she cheatted with, and that she kind of missed him ect...

Right now she's got a boyfriend. So idk it's hard to say wtf is going on here. Montreal is around 2 hours away from here, and I wouldn't mind going even if we don't fvck around, it's a pretty cool city.

So how do I play this?
 
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