"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Girl coming in my city, and then wants me to go to Montreal with her.

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Yeah so this older woman in her 30's wants me to go to Montreal with her for a weekend. Is this an IOI, btw she thinks im a huge player, and she's maybe an hb 7. How do I game this?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Wolf are you really this ****ing ignorant, this is a french name.
 
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Is she paying or does she expect you to?

Do you want to go to Montreal?
 
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Some folks get a bit of kino and wonder, sensibly enough, is this girl showing me some interest? But this girl invites you to a far away city to presumably sleep in the same room if not the same bed with her and she just might be wearing something skimpy if not "nothing at all".

Just a hunch, but I would guess that she just might be interested in you. But then again, I have always just looked at these things with as much common sense as possible.
 
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how far are you from montreal first of all

second of all, she might just want company and it might not be an ioi at all, but hey, if your game is tight, this is a great opportunity to **** her brains out


you're gona have to give more info before anyone can tell you "how you should game this"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She was my roomate for two months, then she went to washington, and she kept sending me messages, like I miss you, and the city i'm in ect..

When she was here, she kept telling me story's about her cheating on her boyfriends, and that I reminded me of one of the guys she cheatted with, and that she kind of missed him ect...

Right now she's got a boyfriend. So idk it's hard to say wtf is going on here. Montreal is around 2 hours away from here, and I wouldn't mind going even if we don't fvck around, it's a pretty cool city.

So how do I play this?
 
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