"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

Girl coming in my city, and then wants me to go to Montreal with her.

Stéphane

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 7, 2007
Messages
505
Reaction score
4
Yeah so this older woman in her 30's wants me to go to Montreal with her for a weekend. Is this an IOI, btw she thinks im a huge player, and she's maybe an hb 7. How do I game this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Stéphane

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 7, 2007
Messages
505
Reaction score
4
Wolf are you really this ****ing ignorant, this is a french name.
 

traffic

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 2, 2007
Messages
72
Reaction score
2
Is she paying or does she expect you to?

Do you want to go to Montreal?
 

decades

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 3, 2004
Messages
1,223
Reaction score
35
Location
sf ca
Some folks get a bit of kino and wonder, sensibly enough, is this girl showing me some interest? But this girl invites you to a far away city to presumably sleep in the same room if not the same bed with her and she just might be wearing something skimpy if not "nothing at all".

Just a hunch, but I would guess that she just might be interested in you. But then again, I have always just looked at these things with as much common sense as possible.
 

Kev07

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 2, 2006
Messages
1,706
Reaction score
9
Location
Bay Area, California, Currently in SoCal (UCR)
how far are you from montreal first of all

second of all, she might just want company and it might not be an ioi at all, but hey, if your game is tight, this is a great opportunity to **** her brains out


you're gona have to give more info before anyone can tell you "how you should game this"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Stéphane

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 7, 2007
Messages
505
Reaction score
4
She was my roomate for two months, then she went to washington, and she kept sending me messages, like I miss you, and the city i'm in ect..

When she was here, she kept telling me story's about her cheating on her boyfriends, and that I reminded me of one of the guys she cheatted with, and that she kind of missed him ect...

Right now she's got a boyfriend. So idk it's hard to say wtf is going on here. Montreal is around 2 hours away from here, and I wouldn't mind going even if we don't fvck around, it's a pretty cool city.

So how do I play this?
 
Top